Anonymous asked:
People get jelous for pets now?!
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instructor144 answered:
You’d be amazed. My old man hated my mom’s bad ass male tabby.
“You love that goddam cat more than you love me!!!”
“He gives me a lot less aggravation than you do.”
“ … “
Plenty of insecure, immature, self-absorbed people get jealous of their partner’s devotion to their pets.
“She was afraid to want things for herself. She didn’t think she deserved them.”
— Susan Choi
Double edge sword: still think this way yet I refuse to settle for less than my supposed ‘high’ standard.
Anonymous asked:
This is a really general and broad question and I’m really sorry if it seems invasive, but do you have any information on how to expand a D/s relationship outside of the bedroom? I have a lot of anxiety and I’m constantly churning my brain so it feels good when I can just let go and let in. But I struggle with the feeling that I’m losing my independence if I give up control outside the bedroom. Do you have any tips on how to make it easier or how you do it yourself? Thank you!
instructor144 answered:
Followers?
I’d suggest to try one thing at a time. I’ve battled this same thing, and have a lot of anxiety when it comes to “outside choices ”.
I just started by asking if they could pick out a shirt for me, or help me arrange my day properly..etc.
That way you arent fully giving up your independence, rather slowly getting them to help you with every day choices.
^^^ Slow and steady. One step at a time. Give up a little. Watch to see if they step up and handle it properly and step up. Rinse and repeat, a little bit at a time.